In addition, I also returned classmate with my kindergarten-age friend, Vitariana. Keep in gently, friendly and so polite to everyone. That’s all about Vita I ever knew. In addition, she was also disciplined in doing her homeworks. In a conversation, she told me that if she grows up, she wanted to be a doctor like her beloved father. Her father was indeed a famous and generous doctor in our hometown.
Also, the best friend I always keep in mind from this junior high school was Dian Sushanti. We often met in the school library since both of us love to read. His father was a lecturer at IKIP Malang as well. As I told you in advance, IKIP was Teachers Training College in Indonesia. Only to Dian I ever moaned about my dissolution facing the future. I began to realize that there was nothing I could hope for from my father to pay for my college. He will remain on his own way anyway. And no one could advise him.
I’m so close to my mother. We talked about many things, lot of things I knew from my mother and I did not get from my reading. Including about sexual matters. Parents usually avoid discussing this matter with their children, but not with my mom and me. Something I’m very grateful till now.
I knew the differences between bahenol and sexy also from my mom indeed. According to my mother, the bahenol was if a woman had big breasts and or buttocks, while the sexy was a beautiful body shape. So, that sexy did not always mean bahenol. Bahenol because of silicon was obviously even a sickening thing. From my mother’s information, I finally found out that Jujuk, one of my classmates were sexy and bahenol or voluptuous indeed, while Ira, also my classmate, was definitely sexy, but not so bahenol as well.